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Thursday, April 30, 2015

Learn the Secrets of Publishing Stardom!

It's never too early or too late:

Throw out every writer's guide you've ever bought or downloaded.

Shred all the notes you ever took at all those writing workshops.

Forget everything your writing teachers told you in school.

You wasted a lot of time and money.

And don't even think of NaNoWriMo.

E.L. James, author of the blockbuster Fifty Shades of Grey, has published a writing guide that's back in the news again, or at least making waves on social media: Fifty Shades of Grey: Inner Goddess (A Journal).

What? You missed it? There's still time to get it for every wannabe writer you know as a Mother's Day gift. How else can people learn to produce prose gems like these below?

"I moan into his mouth, giving his tongue an opening."

"I have a serious case of the butterflies. They are flourishing in my stomach."

"My subconscious has reared her somnambulant head."

"I slice another piece of venison, holding it against my mouth."

"A frisson of trepidation mixed with tantalizing exhilaration sweeps through my body, making me wetter."

"And I come, my orgasm ripping through me, a turbulent, passionate apogee that devours me whole."


Let's face it: When it comes to sex writing, and writing about food, and people, and butterflies, E.L. James has no equal.

Are you ready?

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Lev Raphael is the author of Writer's Block Is Bunk and 24 other books in genres from memoir to mystery, which you can find on Amazon and at Barnes & Noble.

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The End of College? (or Maybe Just the End of Kevin Carey's Career)

Kevin Carey's book, The End of College: Creating the Future of Learning and the University of Everywhere, has been receiving a lot of attention in the press lately. Carey boldly pronounces that colleges and universities should be and will be held accountable for their deficiencies, such that their complete demise is only a matter of time. Good riddance, he sneers. Reading that cocksure call, one wonders whether Carey and his enablers will hold Carey similarly accountable for his own professional liabilities.

The main narrative hook of The End of College is that Carey took time away from his job and his family to complete a free online college course called "The Secret of Life," and he's mighty proud that he received an 87 percent grade overall in the course.

Because of that transformative experience, Carey thinks himself now able to peer into and predict the future, and to do so with tremendous confidence: Residential, brick-and-mortar colleges and universities will have to close shop, he augurs. Everything will, instead, be online. Education will be free. It will be worldwide. It will be accessible. It will be meritocratic. Gone will be professors. Gone will be PhD degrees. Gone will be Harvard. Carey now knows The Secret of Education.

Advances in technology will disrupt the traditional forms of education, he propounds, and thus the whole U.S. higher education edifice will come crashing down. Replacing traditional colleges and universities will be globalized MOOCs (Massive Open Online Courses) that can be customized for individual learners through self-correcting A.I. (Artificial Intelligence) feedback algorithms. Big Data will know more and more about how you learn, not just how you shop, and Carey is breathlessly excited about this techno-edutopia to come.

But hold it: We've heard this MOOC hype before -- about two to three years ago (which is an eternity in techno-years). The MOOC run-up has already run its course. The book now reads as woefully dated, as if Carey came late to a Silicon Valley party. The MOOCs Über Alles blitzkrieg, promoted heavily by some early Stanford-based computer science flim-flam artists out for mega-bucks, has already been cooled and even discredited. Many of the big trends Carey gushes over have already come up dry. Many of the Carey's big heroes showcased in the book, such as Sebastian Thrun, have already thrown in the towel regarding educational MOOCs. Carey apparently at one point drank the Clayton Christensen "disruptive innovation" Kool-Aid but doesn't seem to realize that his book now reads like a bad hangover.

Results are already in about MOOCs: they aren't so massive after all, especially at the end of a course. Completion rates are abysmally low. The data show that the persons who complete them are overwhelmingly older males who already have advanced degrees -- in other words, precisely Carey's demographic. Studies now show that underprivileged students who haven't enjoyed ready access to education are most in need of real teachers, not canned lectures pretending to be video games. We now know that the most important catalyst for learning isn't some fancy bells-and-whistles software platform, but inspiring and dedicated in-the-flesh classroom mentors.

So what went so wrong so fast with Carey's book? Surely in his occupational capacity as Director of the Education Policy Program at the New America Foundation he keeps up with late-breaking education studies, trends, and data -- how, then, did he manage to publish a Dead On Arrival book, such that recent developments render the book's main pitch already behind-the-times rather than prescient?

Carey's book doesn't fit into a ready genre of book production. The End of College isn't a scholarly work, even though it wants to take on (and take down) the world of academe. It isn't an example of, nor grounded in any social science field -- not economics, political science, history, sociology, or psychology, though it dabbles in and out of these fields (along with dropping references to cog sci and neuroscience) and yet includes far more footnotes than does the typical airport trade book. But no scholar would claim this book. And it doesn't meet the basic standards of journalism, where one tries to present a balanced approach and various sides to an issue. And few newspaper editors would accept its wild and unguarded prognostications even as an over-the-top rant for the op-ed page. It's something else.

First, it's not just a wide-eyed crystal-ball-ish divining of the future. It's also a broad and scathing critique of the present. Carey submits sweepingly that American higher education has been waging, for a long time, a massive con job on the public, and the jig is up. But it's also more than just vision and critique. The book is centrally about Kevin Carey -- about his parents, and his childhood, and his own college experience, and the entrepreneurial heroes he admires, and his transformative MOOC class experience. History and public policy dovetail into memoir and personal predilection, and that's where The End of College gets awkward and weird.

Carey reveals way too much about himself: tmi, as one would say in a texting format. His father was a PhD computer scientist, he informs us on page 7. His mother earned her PhD, too. But Carey never got his PhD. He regards his own BA degree, from a large public university, to be little more than a piece of paper with his "name, rank, and number" on it. We readers feel the sting of his hurt and of his generational status anxiety, and he invites us to compare his personal shame in not achieving his PhD with his glowing pride in earning a merit badge thanks to his 87 percent score on that pivotal MOOC course. PhD's, he adamantly tells us, are way overrated, and that goes for his father, too. (A little too much cartoon Oedipalism is going on in this book, along with the textbook concern for self-made-man autonomy as antidote.)

Carey concedes that his father worked hard for his PhD, but Carey diminishes that diligence by underscoring that his father was "lucky" to live near an institution of higher learning that happened to enable his particular achievement. But such luck shouldn't be rewarded with job protection, Carey professes. By the second paragraph of his "History of the American PhD" (pp. 32ff), Carey rues that universities will hire only PhDs as teachers. The PhD, we learn furthermore, is simply a marker of status, not a marker of merit, and serves merely as a guild card to keep out true talent from universities (that would be...Carey?). To drive home his point in that mini-history section, Carey quotes a purely imaginary professor that he conjures up for the reader: "...with the Ph.D., you have value, or rather a price tag that will keep you employed."

Carey continues to battle psychic demons and enemy PhDs: We readers learn (albeit absent data or criteria) that most PhDs in universities today are terrible teachers or else swim in a "sea of mediocrity." Carey confides that he felt "status anxiety" while taking a recent tour of Harvard, and so we are supposed to share his glee when we learn that elitist Harvard reluctantly and belatedly had to join MOOC forces with more down-to-earth-minded MIT. Strangely interwoven with his own family narrative is a family narrative about Stephen Joel Trachtenberg and his father and sons. Trachtenberg, though he never earned a Ph.D. [note to Carey: get over it] became a university president who deliberately ran up the cost of his institution in order to ratchet up the institution's status. But late in life Trachtenberg realized that his era of high-priced, high-status, low-delivering universities was coming to an end. And Carey dwells on Tractenberg's own familial come-uppance: One of his sons landed a job in Silicon Valley with LinkedIn. Trachtenberg thought his son should get a PhD, as Tractenberg's father had advised him. Trachtenberg's son rebuked him, however: "But, Dad, if I get a PhD in my line of work, I'll be looked down upon." That generational rebuke in a shifting economy makes Carey very happy and convinces him that the University of Everywhere is surely in the offing, not just in his head.

Carey lauds Minerva University as a pioneering online university for the future. Minerva is the brainchild of Snapfish founder Ben Nelson. The Minerva folks will hold online classes, availing themselves of freely available MOOCs; but with their proprietary software platform, they will divide their students into small online discussion sections of 25 or so. Minerva seeks to attract Harvard-grade students who will need to pay only a fraction of Harvard's cost, about $10K/year. While all teaching and learning will be on-line, Nelson promises that Minerva students will have a residential experience: they will live in four (eventually) different world-class cities over their four-year stretch. Nelson envisions expanding Minerva to 200,000 students worldwide, which would make it very profitable. Carey is impressed that Minerva has attracted $25 million in startup venture capital.

We at Pomona College happen to know a different side to the Minerva story. Nelson discovered a "loophole" (his word) around the national accreditation process: find an already accredited college in your region, and if that college will "sponsor" you as co-curricular partner, you can be accredited before you ever open your doors and ever teach an actual class! Minerva approached Pomona College with precisely that backdoor proposition and wooed us for about a year, trying to convince us to front and to vouch for them. After considerable study and debate, the Pomona College faculty roundly rejected such an offer.

There were many such reasons. Some faculty members objected to the very premise that a for-profit company could be entrusted to deliver an uncompromised, incorruptible, truth-seeking college education. Some balked at the fact that discredited former university presidents Bob Kerry and Larry Summers were the two academics sitting on the Minerva Board of Trustees supposedly to lend gravity and integrity to the operation. Some were incensed at the claim that Minerva could provide the functional substitute for a liberal arts education: for instance, an on-line format can provide no hands-on laboratory science, no productive or performative or group-based art, music, or theatre courses, no physical education or recreational sport, no face-to-face foreign language instruction, no internships, no student government, no organized extracurricular activities, and not much of anything beyond screen time.Nelson (or at least Carey) conveniently fails to point out that the reported $10K/year figure doesn't include room and board and other costs. When we asked about student problems, mental health issues, for example, Minerva officials responded -- no kidding -- that their advanced biometric screening devices in the admissions process will keep out such troubled individuals.

After Pomona College turned down Minerva's request to assist them in circumventing the normal accreditation process [side note to those who complain about the college accreditation system: start your start-up as unaccredited, earn a track record of accomplishment, let market competition prove your institution's superior worth and value in comparison with those "protected" accredited places, and stop complaining], Minerva officials found an institution willing to take on a partnership with Minerva for the sake of a sped-up and untested accreditation: the Keck Graduate Institute in Claremont. The Keck Graduate Institute's own history is also one of forcing a partnership on the basis of pure hype: In 1997 Keck became a member of the Claremont College Consortium owing to can't-miss claims about the lucrative biotech industry to come, flowing from the much-ballyhooed Human Genome Project (another of Carey's grand fantasies). The Keck Graduate Institute never delivered on its promise of producing a biotech corridor in the Claremont area, so apparently Keck officials were willing to hitch their wagon to Minerva's star. We'll see how that partnership goes, especially since Keck has heretofore been in the business of teaching graduate students, not undergraduates.

Minerva may make money, eventually, yielding a robust return to its VC investors. But to many of us at Pomona College it hardly seems like a sure thing, notwithstanding Carey's ringing endorsement. Minerva's business plan relies on finding enough students worldwide who believe they are smart enough to get into Harvard but are, at the same time, gullible enough to think that Minerva is comparable to Harvard, only cheaper.

Carey makes big claims in The End of College. He sees an inevitable future ahead, the culminating result of certain technological and economic trends that he insists are trending all around us. Using the same mish-mash methodology to predict the future, he ought to write a companion book -- a sequel to The End of College -- called The End of Sex. The argument would go like this: Disruptive innovations in virtual technologies everywhere are rendering residential sex obsolete. Match.com is clearly more efficient than old, clumsy courtship rituals, and improved algorithms will obviate the need entirely for bar hopping. Virtual sex is disease-free and quantifiable. Advancements in robotics, tactile interactivity, customizable AI, and neuro-scientific sensory mapping are all conspiring to supplant old-school face-to-face sexuality. Virtual sex is market-friendly and doesn't rely on unfair status credentials. Carey will probably make good money if he puts forth The End of Sex book, and he'll be able to laugh at stodgy PhDs all the way to the bank.

Sarcasm aside, the point is: there's something salacious, sordid, and sad about Carey's edu-porn vision. It relentlessly discounts the value of face-to-face human relations and overlooks the inherent (and irreplaceable) joy of such encounters. Many (we'd say most) professors and students do what they do, not because they are motivated primarily by status or job concerns, but because they love learning and learning with others. Carey, though, thinks all of this interpersonal activity can be consolidated, standardized, digitized, and scaled up. Why should you have 500 separate orchestras on 500 separate college campuses when everyone could listen to one centralized and professionalized orchestra play the same music and play it better?

Well, neuroscientists report that the brain explodes with productive synaptic activity when persons perform music (as opposed to merely listening to it). Call musical performance, then, exercise for the creative brain. And as any musician will tell you, playing music in a group, with others, is essential to one's musical development. Carey may think he can learn to play the trombone alone in his room by opening his laptop and Skyping into an AI-enhanced MOOC trombone course, but he'd be wrong.

In only one place in the book does Carey raise the question of whether humanities education can be effectively digitized. His discussion is limited to one paragraph. The extent of his investigation: He asks a Harvard biologist for his views on the matter. That's it. Carey doesn't present any evidence, let alone countervailing views. The biologist's answer: "The humanities are a series of juxtaposed exposures to very different things -- perhaps music, literature, and film -- that provoke moments of coalescences and realization. Technology provides many ways to achieve such moments...."

You would think that, in writing a book on education, the Director of the Education Policy Program at the New America Foundation would treat the subject with the rigor, depth, and thoughtfulness that the subject deserves. Instead, Carey has produced a sloppy polemic, a revenge fantasy that tries to turn personal resentment and cynicism into public policy. The End of College is an embarrassment. And it's not because Kevin Carey lacks a PhD.

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14 One-Liners That Sum Up Marriage In A Nutshell

In the big picture, marriage is about love, commitment, partnership, sacrifice and selflessness. But on a day-to-day basis, marriage isn't always about all of those high-minded things. It's about deciding what the hell to eat for dinner or learning to deal with your partner's weird bathroom habits.

We turned to the Twittersphere to find some more honest definitions of marriage. Below are 14 tweets that perfectly encapsulate what it means to be married in less than 140 characters.











































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Stunning 'Woman: Redefined' Portraits Show How Breast Cancer Reshaped These Womens' Bodies

"The photo shoot was the first time someone looked at me like a person and as not a specimen on the exam room table."

That's what one woman photographed for the upcoming book Woman: Redefined told the project's creators, Kristina Hunter and ML Kenneth. The pair have created a book of portraits featuring women who have undergone breast cancer surgery, which they intend to distribute free of charge to Breast Health centers in the U.S. and Canada.

(Some images below may be considered NSFW.)

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Hunter, a college professor, decided to create the book after her own breast cancer diagnosis in the autumn of 2013.

"When the shock wore off, and we began to investigate our options, my husband and I were disheartened to see only very clinical images of women before and after their surgeries," Hunter told The Huffington Post. "Moreover, these photos were kept in a binder, in a drawer, in an office. Why the secrecy? Are we not talking about 1 in 9 women? Should we not embrace our new bodies? Doesn't the unfamiliar become the norm by seeing it?"

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Hunter teamed up with artist and photographer ML Kenneth to take portraits of women who have undergone a wide scope of breast surgeries. The women included are a diverse group, pulling from all ages and ethnicities.

"The process of working on the Woman: Redefined project has been humbling, profound, and transformative," Kenneth told The Huffington Post. "Having these brave women share their bodies, stories and hearts with me has changed forever how I feel about art, beauty and life. Each body, imperfectly beautiful, each woman, completely inspiring. Cancer has taught them to not take life for granted. In turn, they have taught me how to LIVE."

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Hunter and Kenneth hope that their book will help women facing breast cancer by reassuring them that they are not alone -- and that their bodies will still be works of art after whatever procedures their treatment may require.

Hunter told HuffPost: "We would like to influence the internal dialogue of women and their spouses when going through breast cancer, 'What will I look like? Will I still feel like a woman? Will I be sexy? Will I be me?' And if we can influence a broader social dialogue about women's bodies and help to improve women's self-esteem by showing real bodies in a beautiful light, then we have done something worthwhile."

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The book will feature women's words as well as their photographs. The anecdotes will explore how the subjects feel about their bodies and what their experience with cancer has been like.

"As an artist, I refer to myself as a visual storyteller," Kenneth said. "How profound, that I get to help these women tell their stories."

Ultimately, Hunter and Kenneth intend for the book to be a source of hope to anyone affected by breast cancer.

"I want women going through breast cancer to see a future for themselves," Hunter told HuffPost. "To see that they are and will continue to be more than the disease. That they are whole, and beautiful and perfect."

Learn more about Woman: Redefined here.

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Living Like Worms

for Annie Dillard

We are all worms. But I believe that I am a glow-worm.
Winston Churchill


I picked up my slimy, sticky, dried up body and carried it to the next reed of grass, into the next space of dirt. No die. No die. No die. I kept my heart in my gut and squeezed out all the dead cells of my skin, cleansed myself in the potpourri of the flowers, the bees rode on me and harnessed my power.

Worm. I am worm. Earth and daughter and sun. Save me, I looked up. Save the earth in my body, the dirt in my worm. I became a strong worm, a worm nothing could eat, a steel worm, a metal worm, a sunflower worm. I didn't care to be anything else.

I curled up under a deck. I ate dirt, became dirt, ate decaying roots and leaves, even the manure from a fat cow, cracked sticks. The cool air, the cool soil, dirt, foot, finger, mushroom, potato... all love me. All. All.

No birds scared me. No ground swallowed me whole, no pinch from rubber soles. My digestion kept me whole, a root in the sunken soil, and I made a tunnel to rest in. I ate more dirt and released it from behind. I drank fresh water and nibbled on thyme.

Fresh water couldn't sink me. Streets couldn't kill me, tear me a part, flatten me. I'm 600 million years old.

I drilled into the wet sand, ate a small chip of rock. I cared less than the fly and more than the bee. Wanted honey and tea, wanted to float in the mixture, ease a sting.

Earth. Inside the earth. Burrowing into the dirt and grit and slime.

I'm the earth's intestine, small gizzard, large mouth. I eat trouble whole, garbage and tissue paper. Love me. Love me, I say. I heart you. I don't need pills like you, human. I hold my own hand in despair. I'm a one worm kind of worm.

I hear you from under the deck, feel the burger drippings on my back, and wait for the broken carrot heads to fall onto me. No eyes. I don't need eyes. I feel it all, even silence, by choice.

I don't need to stalk or kill. I am holier than that. I clean the guts of the dirt, the stomach of the dead cow, split squirrel. I can live the way I want. No we. Just I, long and certain of my life, confident about my body, no eyes needed to see in a mirror what I don't like. Nothing to change. I'm the earth's angel.

I don't need approval, no validation of my prettiness, ugliness. Worm, caterpillar, wormwood, silk parachute. All worm. No doubt. Tinia.

I live anywhere I want, go where the light feels warm. My back, my belly, all the same. Worm in the dirt, line on paper, pen in the mud, poem in the grass, smile on the sidewalk. Worm slow and cool by the poolside, dried up like leather. No regrets, this worm. No bones, no jaw, no skull to hold me back.

Unhinged in the hand and in the fields and in the woods. Call me a worm, call me vermis from a great height. Human against the clouds, thoughtless giant, know-it-all. I'm the most perfect freedom, soil's necessity, pure and obedient to nature, my tail in the pond, my stomach against the bramble, my mouth in the dirt. I'll never let the grass go, the roots tangled down here next to the wild rose.

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Overcoming Writer's Block: The Three Catalysts to Boost Your Writing Productivity and Performance

Spring has sprung, which means it's time to sow the seeds that with care and watering will grow into your very own field of dreams. The time is now. Don't wait, just do.

How do you focus your watering can on the seeds that will sprout a book that can grow?

I've failed on multiple projects. Some were bad ideas, some were executed terribly, some didn't even get out of my head, and some of those that did were only partially implemented.

When I fail to meet my expectations, it crushes my confidence. Every time I failed, I felt like I was just a few minutes too late.

It's like waiting until the last minute to ask my dream date to the prom, only to find out she already said yes to someone else. A moment late is forever lost, so carpe diem - seize the day!

One last thing before I share the three catalysts that will boost your writing productivity and performance during your work sessions. I don't want you to think this article is me preaching from a pedestal about how I know the right way to do things and you need to do what I say.

All I'm doing here is expressing how right now in my life I feel more alive, inspired, and focused than ever before. I can trace that back to 3 catalysts in my work sessions.

Catalyst #1: Habitat

Where you work is the most important factor affecting your writing performance and productivity. I once heard Roger Hamilton say, "Your environment is everything. Even the most talkative person is quiet in a library. It's the same reason you wouldn't read a book in a night club." Environment dictates behavior.

That resonated deeply with me. It's about creating a space where your body knows what to do on a subconscious and psychological level. Knowing how to enter these states in specific spaces is pure power.

I have multiple spaces for different ways of being.

Creative space

This space is open, with lots of windows and a vibe of freedom. I come to this space to write, plan, and create. It is my favorite space. I love creating, and I make sure I visit this space at least once each day.

Analytical space

The next space I have is for analytics and hard numbers. This space is only for that. I reflect on the figures from the previous day, week, or month depending on the task. I realign efforts if I've gotten off-track. Nobody but me knows where this space is. I don't bring my phone. I turn off the Internet and I dive in.

Energy Space

The last space is my energy space. This is how I sustain inspiration. This room has a vision board, natural sunlight everywhere, scant furniture, and lots of pillows. In this space I re-align with my purpose, my intent, the big WHY for all the work I do. In this space I journal, meditate, hangout with friends, listen to music, dance, and basically re-connect with the kid I have always been. This allows me to go into my other two spaces feeling free and light.

Catalyst #2: Habit

Thousands and thousands of articles have been written about habits, so I won't self-righteously tell you what works and what doesn't.

Richard Branson wakes up at 5:45 a.m., and Apple's CEO, Tim Cook, wakes up around 4:00 a.m.

Warren Buffett, Arianna Huffington, and Bill Gates all aim for around 7 hours of sleep each night, as does Jeff Bezos, founder and CEO of Amazon.

Habits need to be tailored.

Observing all of these individuals, you will come to realize they all have a rhythm; a daily routine they stick to. These are consistent actions they've been using for most of their lives.

They each have certain routines in the AM, and focuses throughout the day that keep them energized and inspired.

The only two personal points I want to cover are:

A. The #1 mistake I make in forming habits.

B. The #1 technique I use that, when implemented, has tremendous consequences in habit success for me.

My mistake is I try to establish more than one habit at the same time.

Let's say I want to wake up earlier, write more each day, and spend more time exercising. That's three different habits I'm trying to make happen all at the same time.

The usual result is that I spend two weeks in a vicious cycle of failing at two out of three, taking turns on which one I fail at. I inevitably end up feeling like... a failure.

Failure is such a crappy feeling, which leads me to my next point.

It wasn't that I was a failure; it was that my strategy was failing.

What I did next was add just one habit at a time. After 14 days I found that the habit was embedded and I had more control. Subsequently, I was able to add another habit.

I once heard if you try to push two balls up a hill, both will end up rolling back down. This was a great analogy for my old habit formation method.

Overall, habits are all about consistency.

Catalyst #3: Hacks

A hack is a quick energy boost. Most people accomplish this by drinking coffee, which is a timeless hack. Here's a list of hacks I use to improve my writing productivity and performance:

A) Music.

When I write I listen to the same song for the whole duration. It keeps me focused. I begin to write to the beat. I even create a rhythm with the beat. It's almost like some kind of trance state.

B) Pomodoro Technique.

A pomodoro timer is a great way to create intense work sessions. This is great for individuals with lots of responsibilities.

Set a timer for 25 minutes. Focus on your most important task.

When the timer goes off, stop for 5-10 minutes. Use this time to relax, grab a drink of water (or coffee), send an email, or anything else you can fit into that amount of time.

C) Objective List.

Write all the objectives you want to achieve during the week, then write the three actions you need to do to make each one happen.

Keep the actions to just three. Keep your objective list small as well, otherwise you'll be setting yourself up for failure.

As you tackle these short lists of objectives and actions you'll feel accomplished, which will boost your confidence, and then you'll approach your work in a better spirit.

A big fat list can leave you feeling pretty small. Nobody wants to feel small.

D) Approach Fear.

Each and every day I try do something I fear - every single day. Why? It gets my heart beating and reminds me I'm alive. I love feeling alive.

Approaching fear is the only chance we have to put our heart into our work. It's the only chance you have to do what you love, literally.

The time is now. Any other moment is too late.

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Obama Gets Interrupted By Impatient Sixth-Grader

President Barack Obama was interrupted by a sixth-grader who thought his answer about writer’s block was a bit long-winded.

On Thursday, Osman Yaya, a student from Bennett Middle School in Salisbury, Maryland, interviewed the president at the Anacostia Library in Washington, D.C.

While Obama was answering a question about writer’s block, Yaya totally cut Obama off.

"I think we've sort of covered everything about that question," Yaya said.

“Okay, Osman thinks I’ve been talking too long,” Obama responded.

This wasn’t the first time Obama has been interrupted during a reading event with kids. During the annual White House Easter Egg Roll this year, a swarm of bees interrupted the president while he was reading Maurice Sendak’s Where the Wild Things Are to a group of children.

During the library visit Thursday, Obama answered several questions about his reading habits.

"I'm still a big Dr. Seuss fan," Obama said. "I was into adventure stories. There was something called 'The Hardy Boys' back in the day."

One student in the audience asked him about the kind of technology he had in school while he was growing up. Obama said he wasn’t a fan of using typewriters.

"You had to get this thing called White-Out," he said. "You guys don't even know how good you've got it."

During the event, Obama announced that major book publishers will provide more than $250 million of free e-books to be given to low-income students.

Watch the president get interrupted above.

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'Peter Pan' May Have A Dark Secret You Didn't Know About

One year ago, Disney put "Peter Pan" back in the vault. It'll be a few years before it's released again to a new generation, but in the meantime, it's hard not to look back on it with fond memories ... or is it?

The truth is that J. M. Barrie's original story, which inspired Disney's tale, may have a dark secret. After hearing it, you can't really blame Peter's shadow for wanting to get the heck out of there.

The Dark Truth: Peter Pan was killing the Lost Boys.



Image: Disney/LiveJournal

When it comes to the Internet, a lot of fan theories can be categorized as crazy town. This one, however, has enough evidence to make a Lost Boy wet his onesie. Though it's easy to miss, one line in the story basically reveals the Lost Boys' fate:

The boys on the island vary, of course, in numbers, according as they get killed and so on; and when they seem to be growing up, which is against the rules, Peter thins them out; but at this time there were six of them, counting the twins as two.


Yep, you read that right. When the Lost Boys get too old, Peter "thins them out." But what does that mean? Redditor crusty_the_clown sums it up pretty well:



Maybe Pan isn't that specific with how he gets rid of the Boys, but you get the point. So could he really kill them off?

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A variety of things suggest Peter Pan is capable of offing his compatriots. For one, Peter hates adults (like, he really hates them), which you can see in the story:

As soon as he got inside his tree he breathed intentionally quick short breaths at the rate of about five to a second. He did this because there is a saying in the Neverland that, every time you breathe, a grown-up dies; and Peter was killing them off vindictively as fast as possible.


Jeez, Peter, tell us how you really feel.

With his clear distaste for grown ups, it's reasonable to think that Pan would have a lot of contempt for the boys as they grew up.

Also, the original story was just dark in general, which gives the theory even more plausibility. Grim moments include Wendy nearly dying after being shot by an arrow, Peter being attacked by Hook and left to drown and Hook being eaten by the crocodile.

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You can't take everything at face value in a story about children. The "thins them out" line could just be a metaphor, or, as one commenter points out on PainInTheEnglish, perhaps it means something entirely different:

It could just as likely refer to them being killed by pirates, or leaving Neverland upon growing up, or being banished or shunned, etc.


The story can definitely be open to interpretation, but even Disney's toned down version isn't without its dark moments. If true, could Disney's Pan be capable of killing the Lost Boys, too?

Think happy thoughts, people! Just think happy thoughts.


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Bettyville: A Writer Returns Home to Care For His Ailing Mother

What is Bettyville? It's a place where "people pray for angels, where the Second Coming would be much preferred to tomorrow's sunrise." Once a thriving depiction of Americana, it is now "the world of the Dollar Store, the Big Cup, the carbohydrate, and the cinnamon roll." It's actually in Paris...Missouri, that is, and it is where author George Hodgman returns home to celebrate his mother Betty's ninety-first birthday, and finds himself staying on to take care of her as she approaches a great decline.

Bettyville is the external world that George encounters during the days, weeks, and months of his initial lame attempts at trying to assist a woman who would rather die than ask for help. It is also the internal world of Betty--what her son intuits she is thinking and feeling, and his observations of what was once a woman of style and sass--who is "one of the last truly fashionable women of Monroe County, even now."

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This memoir, written by a son whose love for his mother is so pure and ferocious, is at most times heartwarming, but sometimes heartbreaking. They are, to put it mildly, the odd couple--a middle-aged, gay man with secrets and demons of his own, with a past penchant for pharmaceuticals and a current penchant for doughnuts, living with an elderly woman who hardly wears her heart on her sleeve. Always partners in crime, their mission now is quite different from years past, and it becomes obvious early on that in spite of all the years of closeness and devotion, the elephant in the room, George's homosexuality, is a subject never discussed.

We get to know George by his sharp wit ("I don't want to be the Joan Crawford of elder care.") and fast comebacks, and indeed, by his honest admissions of pain ("My skin is sometimes the most uncomfortable garment of all"). These periods of doubt and isolation prompted me to wonder whether he was running away from himself almost as much as running to help his mother.

This is a story that will draw you in and keep you there. Whether you grew up in New York City or Iowa, you cannot help but see commonalities in this mother-son relationship. At its core, Bettyville is about elder care, but it is just as much about family and all the infuriating, frustrating, and wonderful warmth that goes with it. I first learned of the book from an interview that George Hodgman did on PBS, and as I read it on my own, I could hear his voice reading it to me.



Hodgman has written a sincere love letter from George to Betty, and by the end of the book, I loved Betty too.

I received a copy of this book from the publisher, but this review, as are all my reviews, was honestly written. This review originally appeared in Betterafter50.com

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Obama Launches E-Book Initiative For Low-Income Students

WASHINGTON (AP) -- President Barack Obama announced Thursday that major book publishers will provide more than $250 million in free e-books to low-income students and that he is seeking commitments from local governments and schools nationwide to provide library cards to all students.

Obama announced the initiatives at a library in Washington's economically depressed Anacostia neighborhood. The initiatives are tied to his ConnectEd program, a 2-year-old effort to boost educational outcomes by improving digital connectivity.

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"We're going to provide millions of e-books online so that they're available for young people who maybe don't have as many books at home or don't always have access to a full stock of reading materials," Obama said during a virtual town hall sponsored by Discovery Education.

Obama told the students that how well they do in life is going to depend on whether they love reading and learning, and whether they know how to find information and use it.

The best way to do that in an Internet age, he said, is "making sure that you're plugged in."

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The offer of free e-books comes as low-income households still lag far behind others in computer ownership, but White House officials said libraries and schools in poor communities are increasing access to the Internet. Macmillan, Simon & Schuster and Penguin Random House are among publishers participating in the program.

Obama also appealed to library directors, local governments and school officials to work together to provide all students with a library card. The White House already has commitments from 30 cities and counties, ranging from Baltimore to San Francisco.

During a question-and-answer session with about 40 students in the room and others participating online, Obama declared his love for turning and marking up the pages of traditional books.

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But, he said, "the truth of the matter is we live in a digital age." Obama said e-books are "easy to carry" and that making them available free of charge to people who don't have a lot of books or who can't afford to buy many "can even things out between poor kids and rich kids," who can afford them.

The ConnectEd program aims to make broadband Internet access available to 99 percent of American students by 2018. Already, companies such as Apple have pledged to provide $100 million worth of devices to lower-income schools, said Jeff Zients, director of the White House National Economic Council.

Obama announced the new initiatives two days after he called on the public to do "some soul searching" in the wake of recurrent deaths of black men at the hands of police and riots that have shaken minority communities, most recently in Baltimore.

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"If we're serious about living up to what our country is about, then we have to consider what we can do to provide opportunities in every community, not just when they're on the front page, but every day," Zients said.

A U.S. Census Bureau study of computer and Internet use issued in November found that in 2013 nearly 84 percent of households reported owning a computer. Computer ownership dropped to 62 percent among households with incomes below $25,000.

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Our Land at War: a Portrait of Rural Britain by Duff Hart-Davis, review: 'profoundly moving'

Sinclair McKay marvels at an account of how the Second World War changed our countryside for ever









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Research confirms inadequacy of codpieces in TV version of Wolf Hall

Cambridge conference hears proud history of 16th-century phallic accessories – and is told adaptation of Hilary Mantel’s novels belittled its heroes’ prowess

• The rise and fall of the codpiece - in pictures

The codpieces in the adaptation of Hilary Mantel’s Wolf Hall are “definitely too small”, according to a Cambridge academic who has been researching the 16th-century accessory through the literature and paintings of its time.

Victoria Miller, who is due to give a paper on codpieces at a Cambridge University conference on 30 April, concurred with actor Mark Rylance, who plays Thomas Cromwell in the adaptation and who said late last year: “I think the codpieces are just too small. I think that was a directive from our American producers, PBS. They wanted smaller codpieces.”

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Research confirms inadequacy of codpieces in TV version of Wolf Hall

Cambridge conference hears proud history of 16th-century phallic accessories – and is told adaptation of Hilary Mantel’s novels belittled its heroes’ prowess

• The rise and fall of the codpiece - in pictures

The codpieces in the adaptation of Hilary Mantel’s Wolf Hall are “definitely too small”, according to a Cambridge academic who has been researching the 16th-century accessory through the literature and paintings of its time.

Victoria Miller, who is due to give a paper on codpieces at a Cambridge University conference on 30 April, concurred with actor Mark Rylance, who plays Thomas Cromwell in the adaptation and who said late last year: “I think the codpieces are just too small. I think that was a directive from our American producers, PBS. They wanted smaller codpieces.”

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The rise and fall of the codpiece - in pictures

Did the codpiece – highlight of male fashion in the Renaissance – gradually succumb to the ‘peascod’ belly? As a Cambridge conference is convened to debate the subject, follow the pouch’s rise and fall through European portraiture

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Forty Years Ago Today

Forty years ago today the city of Saigon braced itself for an uncertain future. People thronged the roof of the American Embassy. Warships sat out in the South China Sea, the American fleet prepared to let board anyone who could make it out to them. It's amazing to think how much can change in four decades. I myself am forty-one. I left Vietnam in 1974. I was a six-month-old baby headed to Towanda, PA and a new life with every possible thing before me. Like travel (which I never take for granted as I've met people all over the world -- Mongolia, Morocco, Namibia -- who want nothing more than to visit the U.S. just once in their lives but obtaining a tourist visa often requires several interviews and is rejected more than not). This past January I spent two weeks on the coast of Vietnam in the tourist village of Mui Ne. I took a yoga class with an Israeli instructor. I chatted with the Swiss manager who ran the resort. I enthused with a Polish woman living in Australia about having clothes tailor-made. I stumbled through a Vietnamese language class with a Norwegian couple traveling on diplomatic passports.

Mui Ne is four hours up the coast from Ho Chi Minh City by car and renowned for its kite-surfing. Every afternoon I would watch a mix of old hands and new initiates in their crash helmets hoist their kites aloft, each one bigger than a man and able to pull a body across the water or lift her thirty feet in the air, all afternoon the sky filled with color.

Language matters. When a city is overwhelmed by an outside power, we can either call the act a fall, or we can refer to it as a reunification (sometimes we go so far as to claim that those doing the "overwhelming" will be greeted as liberators). Many in the Vietnamese diaspora still refer to what happened in 1975 as Black April. Honestly I have no opinion on this as my life has afforded me the luxury of not having to form one.

On my last day in Mui Ne, I walked to a small cove twenty minutes from the heart of the beach. From there I noticed one red kite off all by itself where no one could see it. I didn't know what to do. Periodically the kite would lift off and then flounder before settling back in the water. I didn't know if it was intentional or the act of someone in trouble.

Since leaving in '74, I've been back to Vietnam on four separate occasions. There are times when I want to get indignant. I read reports about the Vietnamese government's human rights abuses, writers under house arrest, the way Southerners are often passed over for jobs or college admissions, and then I click on a news story about yet another unarmed black man shot by police, or excerpts from the Senate report on the C.I.A.'s use of torture (and it is torture--we dishonor John McCain and all those who were tortured in Vietnam and elsewhere when we say differently), and it's hard to stay indignant.

In 2010 in the central highlands of Vietnam I met an elderly man who'd been a member of the Communist party for more than fifty years. He showed me a one dollar bill an American veteran had recently given him. On it, the vet had written, "To my one-time enemy, now my friend." When we stood up to leave, my guide asked me to give the man a dollar bill and write something on it as a keepsake. I dug through my wallet, but all I had on me was Vietnamese dong. Then I noticed a golden Sacajawea dollar I received as part of my change when I bought a subway ticket in New York a few weeks back. I offered the man the coin, holding it out in my right hand with the palm of my left touching the crook of my elbow as is the polite way. In Vietnam, the currency consists only of bills. There are no coins. The man's eyes lit up.

Today there are only soft estimates as to how many Vietnamese allies we left behind after April 30th, the figure ranging anywhere from fifty to one hundred thousand and more. Men and women who had spied for us, acted as our interpreters, or aided us in a myriad of ways were left on their own to face the music. Today in Afghanistan and Iraq, it's the same story of people who risked everything on our behalf now denied exit visas to the U.S., these people forced to remain in countries where their lives are constantly at risk. After Mui Ne, I spent three days in Saigon. My second day in the city, I passed a man sitting on Duong Le Loi, a major thoroughfare in Ho Chi Minh City's District 1. As I walked by, my heart filled with tears. The man held out his hat and smiled. I could see all of his teeth. Every. Single. One. Even his molars as the man had no real lips to speak of. His lips, along with most of his eyelids and ears, had been burned off of him, his hands misshapen as well. I had seen this man before. During my very first trip to Vietnam in 2001 I saw him standing in the courtyard at the War Remnants Museum. Back then he wore a sign around his neck that said he was a victim of napalm. Say what you want but forty plus years ago our country did this. Have we learned?

When I walk back from the cove to the heart of the beach in Mui Ne, I approach the first person who looks like an instructor. He is in the middle of helping someone get in the water. Though I assume he's Russian, as the Russians here are so plentiful many of the signs in Mui Ne are written in Cyrillic, I ask, "Do you speak English?" "No," he admits. "There's someone around the corner in trouble," I say anyway, gesturing with my hands to the spot around the bend. A woman walks by harnessed to a giant kite. The man speaks to her in Russian, and then the woman turns to me. "Someone's maybe in trouble," I say, and she translates.

Who would've thought it? What happened in Vietnam forty years ago and beyond happened in part due to the Cold War and theories about countries toppling like dominoes. Today I can meet a Russian in the Socialist Republic of Vietnam and we can both want the same thing. To help someone. The man nods, and with that he turns and walks the twenty minutes up the beach to see what can be done.

Amy Quan Barry is the author of the novel She Weeps Each Time You're Born.

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Ondaatje Prize 2015: shortlist announced

The £10,000 award celebrates books that evoke 'the spirit of a place'. The shortlist includes studies of Baghdad and Delhi, plus a novel by Elif Shafak









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Early Warning by Jane Smiley review – the American Tolstoy?

The second instalment in the Last Hundred Years trilogy brings the US family’s sprawling story vividly to life, defining what it is to be American at the most intimate level

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